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Vivian Harte

Confidence Expert and Author

Vivian Harte is the co-author of Self-Esteem for Dummies in the Dummies series. She has helped over 15,000 people learn and use assertiveness skills during the last 14 years with her skills in self-esteem and self-confidence. Vivian teaches online classes to anyone who feels as though they need guidance in the areas of assertiveness, self-confidence, and teamwork.


Are you lonely? Do you have trouble making friends and keeping them? If so, there are skills you can master that will help you meet people who are potential friends and cultivate your friendships.

This online course begins with the obvious—where to find potential friends. You’ll be surprised at how many different and varied places there are for you to go to and events you can attend to meet new people.

If you have difficulty making small talk when you meet someone new, Vivian will teach you where to find interesting things to talk about. Once you have some talking points under your belt, you’ll learn how to start a conversation with that new person and how to easily carry on a conversation so that a friendship can blossom.

Of course, friendships are created with more than conversation, so we delve into how to build that friendship into a close one where you both will benefit. But as we know, into every relationship some rain will fall. How do you deal with problems that tend to crop up in a friendship? Vivian will tell you how.

Finally, if you are the type of friend who drops everything, changes your schedule around, and even neglects something on your own agenda in order to do what your friends ask, Vivian shares how to be assertive with your friends and not lose their friendships.

With each section, you will receive at least one exercise to complete in order to incorporate what you’ve learned into your own life. Vivian suggests that you write the exercises in a notebook to help you work through the principles she teaches so you can see where you are and how to apply them to your life and daily interactions with others.

All of Vivian's online courses contain guided visualizations and songs throughout. Her courses are intended to take you on a personal journey to understanding yourself and guiding you on a dynamic path of self-discovery to greater self-esteem and self-confidence. She hopes you will join her.

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What Will I Learn?

A Step-by-Step Guide on how to:

  • Find potential friends

  • Cultivate friendships

  • Find interesting things to talk about to carry on a conversation

  • Deal with problems that may arise in friendships

  • Become assertive with friends and not losing friendships

Who Is This Course For?

Anyone who wants to foster and build close and lasting friendships. If you are lonely or often have trouble making friends, then this course is for you.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • When does the course start and finish?

    The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course—you decide when you start and when you finish.

  • How long do I have access to the course?

    After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you are a Blisspot Subscriber—across any and all devices you own.

  • What if I am unhappy with the course?

    We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.