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Vivian Harte

Confidence Expert and Author

Vivian Harte is the co-author of Self-Esteem for Dummies in the Dummies series. She has helped over 15,000 people learn and use assertiveness skills during the last 14 years with her skills in self-esteem and self-confidence. Vivian teaches online classes to anyone who feels as though they need guidance in the areas of assertiveness, self-confidence, and teamwork.


You want to attract someone who is right for you and you for them. You want a long-term relationship with a mate who will love you for who you are, cherish you and your time together, and plan a life with you that will bring both of you joy. 

But how do you go about finding that special someone and developing a long-lasting and intimate relationship? You want to find someone who is compatible with you and you want to keep from having a broken heart if the attraction doesn't work out. This course guides you in using your imagination to look within first and assess what you have to offer and what you're truly looking for in a mate. This is step number one. All the other steps must follow this one. 

Once you know yourself better and know what you're looking for, Vivian shares with you many tips on meeting that special someone and dating them. Vivian teaches you about starting and carrying on a conversation so you'll seem like a brilliant conversationalist as well as techniques for sharing your thoughts, feelings, and opinions so your potential mate will get to know you as well as you get to know them.

Once the magic of a new relationship wears off and you're considering a long-term connection, what should you consider before committing to a mate? What subjects should you discuss so you're not unpleasantly surprised in the future? What are the ingredients for a successful relationship? All of these questions are answered in-depth. 

And just as the sun rises and sets every day, every intimate relationship has its ups and downs. You'll learn how to argue with your mate without damaging the relationship and what the best rules for arguing are. If your mate is doing something you don't like that you want to see changed, Vivian will teach you the four-part "I" statement to explain why it's a problem to you and what you want them to do instead. 

Unfortunately, not every intimate relationship works out. In the last section of this course, Vivian explains step-by-step how to exit a relationship as gracefully as possible without bad feelings. Especially if you have children together or a wonderful relationship with your in-laws, you will want to create a positive relationship for everyone's benefit. 

With each section, you will receive at least one exercise to complete in order to incorporate what you've learned into your own life. Vivian suggests that you write the exercises in a notebook to help you work through the principles and skills so you can see where you are and how to apply them to your life and daily interactions with others. 

All of Vivian's courses contain guided visualizations and songs throughout. Her courses are intended to take you on a personal journey to understanding yourself and guiding you on a dynamic path of self-discovery to greater self-esteem and self-confidence. She hopes you will join her.

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What Will I Learn?

A Step-by-Step Guide on how to:

  • Discover what you’re truly looking for in a partner

  • Start and carry a conversation

  • Share your thoughts, feelings, and opinions

Who Is This Course For?

Anyone who is looking to find a life partner who is truly right for them. If you're ready to settle into a long-term relationship with a mate who will love you for who you are, this course is perfect for you.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • When does the course start and finish?

    The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course—you decide when you start and when you finish.

  • How long do I have access to the course?

    After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you are a Blisspot Subscriber—across any and all devices you own.

  • What if I am unhappy with the course?

    We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.